What's your greatest worry—the one that keeps you awake at night and nips at the edges of your thought during the day?
What if you could learn a simple, four-step technique to let that worry go?
A little worry can be healthy. It can help you focus and get things done. But excess worry translates to long-term stress, and that's not good. Stress raises blood pressure, affects appetite, and can contribute to unhealthy inflammation. The Akea BluePrint for Life provides relaxation techniques that can help mitigate worry and return your body to a non-stressed state.
If you find it impossible to let a worry (or a set of worries) go, then consider trying this simple technique. Writing in the Living section of the Huffington Post, psychologist Hale Dwoskin suggests thinking of worries as memories—things that used to be true, but no longer are.
The reason that problems appear to persist through time is that whenever they are not here in this moment, we go looking for them. That's right; we actually seek out our problems. This means we filter our experiences based on the belief that we have a particular problem and—here's the kicker—we unconsciously censor anything that does not support the belief that we have this problem, including the fact that the problem is not actually here now.
As Dwoskin notes, worries put quite a burden on our daily (and, ugh, nightly!) lives. This is Dwoskin's four-step method for shifting those worries to memories that can be let go to their rightful place: the past.
Step 1. Think of a problem that you used to believe you had. I purposely phrased this question in the past tense because you are now considering all problems as memories. And, in fact, they are. If you're having a hard time accepting your problem as existing only in the past, then allow yourself to include the last 10 seconds as part of the past. And the last second. And the last.
Step 2. Now, ask: "Could I allow myself to remember how I used to believe I had this problem?" This shift in consciousness may make you laugh, it may make you tingle inside or it may simply open the possibility in your awareness that yes, even this is just a memory.
Step 3. Then ask: "Would I like to change that from the past?" If the answer is yes, ask yourself: "Could I let go of wanting to change that from the past?" Now, this may seem counterintuitive, but when you want something, you are holding in mind that you do not have it. In other words, want equals lack. And the feeling of desire actually keeps what you want at bay. Check it out for yourself. Would you rather want a million dollars in the bank, or would you rather have it? Would you rather want to change your problem from the past, or would you rather change it? Now let go as best you can.
Step 4.The completion question in this series is to ask yourself: "Just for now, could I let go of wanting to believe I have that problem again?" And then do your best to let it go.
At Akea, we are always open to new ways of relaxation and stress relief. Learning to live in the moment truly can enhance well-being and health. Is this a technique you would be willing to try?
If you do try it, please comment here to let the community know how it works for you.

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